"Hand in Hand: A Refugee's Journey of Hope and Resilience"

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I grew up in Syria. My family and I began our lives in Turkey as refugees. It was not easy, but we faced each challenge hand in hand. One of the most difficult things was adapting to a new language and culture. A new language was especially hard to learn—made even harder by the fact that Syrians were not always greeted with kindness. I worried excessively about my children, especially in school, that they would be bullied.

Despite these challenges, we were fortunate to have nice neighbors and manage to send my daughter to a good school, where she was able to study Turkish and English from an early age. Her elder siblings were working and studying simultaneously, setting an example of perseverance. Even though we had many difficulties as refugees in Turkey, we helped one another and tried to make the best out of what was occurring. This basis readied us for the change to the United States, so it made it a little easier because we were adapting to new life and toward creating a better future. 

I'd like Americans to know that they can make a difference for immigrants like me by being patient and open-minded. Immigrants often come from very different systems and cultures, and adjusting takes time. A little understanding and kindness go a long way.

Also, take time to listen to our stories and support our potential. Every immigrant has a unique journey filled with challenges and hopes. Just listening without judgment can make us feel seen and valued and helping qualified individuals find jobs that match their skills not only uplifts their dignity but also speeds up their path to self-sufficiency, which benefits everyone in the community.